The Fork You Didn’t Take
Turns Out, Feelings Hike Too
The trail doesn’t care about your plans. You show up at the trailhead with a route in your head, maybe a snack in your pocket, and some version of confidence that today you know what you’re doing. Then there’s a fork. And the fork just sits there, not judging, not advising, just... waiting. You can go the sensible direction, the one you scouted, the one that makes logical sense. Or you can go the other way. The problem isn’t the fork. The problem is when you’re already emotionally roughed up and you let that do the navigating. Because feelings are terrible trail guides. They don’t carry maps.
Today started the opposite of that. Today was genuinely great, the kind of day that makes you forget your knees exist in a bad way. Blue skies so clean they almost looked fake, mountain views stacked layer upon layer like some geologic birthday cake, aspens bare but elegant, an old stone shelter sitting quietly in a meadow like it had nowhere better to be. Inner peace showed up without being invited, which, honestly, is the only way it ever does.
And then that word. Share. The one that costs something.
Here’s the thing about sharing a day like this when other humans you want to share it with has taken their own fork, a different one, one you know but hoped dosn’t happen... it doesn’t ruin the day retroactively. It just adds weight to the pack on the way home. You still had the views. You still had the climb. The mountain didn’t take any of that back.
So now you hike out. Not because it feels good. Because that’s what you do when you’re already on the trail. You finish it. The greatest days and the hard ones aren’t separate experiences. Same hike, just different miles.
March 22: Arrivals Unannounced
March 22nd keeps delivering the unexpected, from blogging on logs and secret single-track missions to midnight bike acquisitions and uninvited taskbar icons. Turns out the best arrivals rarely announce themselves properly, and sometimes landing where you didn’t expect is exactly where you needed to be.
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